Space Between is at once an education for readers, a manifesto for both the labeled and label-free generations, and a personal memoir of love, identity, and acceptance. Nico has become a leading voice of the fluidity movement by encouraging open dialogue and universal acceptance. Expanding on themes explored on their popular podcast, The Love Bomb, Nico shares the intimate details of their romantic partnerships, the dysfunction of their loud but loving Italian family, and the mingling of their feminine and masculine identities into one multidimensional, sexually fluid, nonbinary individual. It was precisely in that space between that Nico encountered the diverse community of open-minded, supportive peers they'd always dreamed of having. It wasn't until Nico dug deep and began to examine the fluidity of both their sexuality and gender identity that they became more comfortable in their own skin, got sober from alcohol, entered into an unconventional marriage with the love of their life, and fully embraced a queer lifestyle that afforded them the opportunity to explore the world outside the gender binary. That is, until the desire for fame and fortune eclipsed their journey toward enlightenment and sent them into a downward spiral of addiction and self-destructive behavior.
Raised on a steady regimen of Ram Dass and raw food, they have always been interested in the more spiritual aspects of life. When that person is ready to have some constructive conversation, they can work that shit out before they come to us.Younger star and LGBTQIA+ advocate Nico Tortorella investigates love, sex, gender, addiction, family, fame, and fluidity through their personal story and the lens of their nonbinary identity "Nico Tortorella embodies the twenty-first-century human."-RuPaul Nico Tortorella is a seeker. We’re both so fucking busy at work that if someone has an issue with what we’re doing-that is not our problem. Tortorella: We just don’t have time to bring any sort of hate and confusion into our lives to even deal with it. I’m very interested in raising our kids in an environment that we never would’ve been raised in. We’re also excited to have our own family. But we both really value family in general. Nico and I don’t go home and say, “Oh, I just went on a date with someone.” I don’t think we’re there yet. It usually tends to be that we’ll get it all out, and just be mad for a moment.īut I think things have gotten significantly better in the past year on both sides of the family. We’ve never had a long fight that’s lasted for days. So in that sense we’re both passionate people and we let our stuff out. I don’t have a problem with confrontation. Yet I am a very passionate person, so if something is upsetting me, I am the type of person who has to bring it up. People can yell, fight, then make up and kiss three seconds later. Nico’s family is the type where everything is out there if there’s a problem, you know it. Meyers: Nico and I come from two very different backgrounds family-wise. Be there for each other through the storm. This content can also be viewed on the site it originates from. I had coffee with him and was like, “OK, I want it to be royal, and Grecian, and also not to necessarily be a male outfit and a female outfit. I reached out to someone Nico used to date, who is a friend of ours. When we got married Nico and I chatted a little bit about the outfits.
Like telling them, “These tights would work better underneath this dress” or “Use that makeup.” It’s fun, as Nico said, to play within our own gender expressions but also helping the other person explore other looks.
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Or show me how to wear a button-up, help me find more masculine-presenting clothing, and show me how to fix my hair. I think what’s been kind of interesting more recently, even this year, is watching Nico help me find boys pants that fit me. One of our hobbies has always been going vintage shopping. Meyers: It’s been really fun to watch us dress each other up over the years.
One thing Bethany isn’t the biggest fan of is when I put on a heel platform and I’m towering above everyone, but we figure it out.
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